The effect depends on the chosen essential oil.įor example, a mixture of peppermint and lavender oils will soothe and uplift the mood of the massage. These are apricot, peach, or grapeseed oils. The best base for a gay male massage is neutral oils that do not have a strong odor. Massage oil not only helps relieve muscle tension but also relaxes the mind and senses, relieves stress and tension.